Here are various methods to change interface/ip interface MTU on current FreeBSD distros:
# ifconfig {interface-name} {ip-address} mtu 9000
# route change {ip-address/mask} -mtu 9000
To see the current MTU settings:
# route get {destination-IP-address} / ifconfig {interface-name}
Output:
route get 10.20.110.2
route to: 10.20.110.2
destination: 10.20.110.0
mask: 255.255.255.192
interface: em0
flags: <up,done,cloning>
recvpipe sendpipe ssthresh rtt,msec rttvar hopcount mtu expire
0 0 0 0 0 0 9000 -454924