Here are various methods to change interface/ip interface MTU on current FreeBSD distros:
# ifconfig {interface-name} {ip-address} mtu 9000
# route change {ip-address/mask} -mtu 9000
To see the current MTU settings:
# route get {destination-IP-address} / ifconfig {interface-name}
Output:
route get 10.20.110.2 route to: 10.20.110.2 destination: 10.20.110.0 mask: 255.255.255.192 interface: em0 flags: <up,done,cloning> recvpipe sendpipe ssthresh rtt,msec rttvar hopcount mtu expire 0 0 0 0 0 0 9000 -454924